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Travel: Pandemic Edition

July 13, 2020

THIS WILL BE A LONGER READ THAN NORMAL, I SUGGEST READING SECTIONS AND COMING BACK TO READ MORE LATER.

  1. New Orleans

  2. Flight: MYS to PHL

  3. Visit through Philly and Delaware

  4. Flight: PHL to MYS - New Orleans again


It seems as the this pandemic is not going away anytime soon and with people still defying orders, it is probably safe to say that our new way of life is to continue to stay sanitized….all over. Although, we are advised to stay home and away from large gatherings, many of us still need to be out and/or travel for work or other reasons -- I am one of those people.

Recently, I took and road trip and a flight to two destinations, New Orleans and Philadelphia.  Here is what I experienced along with a few tips to keep yourself safe.

Everyday Health TIP: If you read my previous discourse (HERE), then you know I routinely take ACV and Elderberry supplements.  I packed these along with other vitamins.  I also packed my own soaps, lotions, disposable towelettes, and hair care products. 

To see my reviews on where I visited and the food I ate: See my Google Reviews or Yelp Reviews

Also, to prepare yourself with some essential travel items, see my Amazon Picks in Health & Wellness and Travel.


1. Road Travel: The ride to NOLA was not bad, I left early in the morning and got there in the mid-afternoon.  I made sure to pack wipes and disinfectant spray since with both cities, I was staying in hotels.  Each hotel was taking their own precautions and requiring visitors to wear masks while in the lobby and other public areas.

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  • Hotel: Royal St. Charles

    • Staff was very friendly and allowed me to check-in early.

    • Rooms were clean, but as an added measure I wiped down all surfaces.

  • Activities – Even though there was a business aspect to my trip, can you really go to New Orleans and not partake in the culture during the day and the nightlife when the sun goes down? TIP: Wear comfortable shoes.

    • For the most part about 90% of people were wearing masks.  Each business also required masks as you entered, but can take them off if you were seated at the bar or a table. There were also sanitizing stations in almost every business, but I still carried my own bottle and cleaned my hands like crazy.

    • Although people maintained a good distance, once the alcohol started flowing, people didn’t think too much about personal space.  I was still coherent enough to not get too close to people. 

      • And applause to the nice man of the (K)rimson (K)rew – insider reference — who chatted me up the whole night and made sure I was not in harms way (I think he is originally from Baton Rouge, LA.) – I always appreciate it when men are gentlemanly and chivalrous without expecting anything in return…You guys are every women’s MVP.

      • Drinking TIP: Take a pain killer or BC Powder before you start drink and before going to sleep, take an all-purpose vitamin.  This will help from feeling the pain and grogginess of a hangover.

    • I noticed some places required you to sign in leaving your name and number in order to keep track of people and contact them if there was any issues regarding COVID.

      • Many of the restaurants spaced out their tables and were good at wiping everything down after guests.  You were also given plastic utensils to eat with and for menus, there were QR Codes to scan so that you did not have to touch a physical menu unless you requested one.

  • Ride to the Airport

    • I planned my travel to Philadelphia from NOLA and parked in a self-serve economy parking.  

    • The shuttle from the parking lot to the airport was slightly different than expected: The driver did not offer to help with the bags (safety precaution maybe) and even though everyone knew to keep a distance, there wasn’t any signs or markings to skip a seat when seating yourself.


2. Air Travel: I was a little nervous with flying during the pandemic, but I really did not want to drive 20 hours from NOLA to Philadelphia.

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  • Flight: American Airlines (MYS to PHL)

    • I used my frequent flyer miles to book my flight, but even when I looked at the regular pricing it was still fairy cheap; less than $200 per person and booking at least 3 weeks prior.

      • When booking, there is a message pop-up that gives you airport regulations such as wearing face covers, not having a fever, or experiencing COVID symptoms

      • The booking was also flexible, I could cancel or reschedule my flight without any added fees if I need to.  I did not have to do or pay anything extra for this option.

    • It was my first time at the New Orleans Airport and even though it was small, I still had to look twice at where I needed to be.

      • Depending on where you are dropped off, third floor is ticketing services and second floor is terminals.

    • Getting through check-in and airport security was the same as usual outside of having the distance markers on the ground.

      • Opt for an electronic boarding pass on your phone so you don’t have to worry about keeping track of anything extra. 

        *I did bring a second form of ID with me due to my driver’s license being expired and not being able to renew because of state offices being closed and only taking appointment for other driver needs.

      • Many of the eateries were closed and the ones that were open had limited seating.

    • Boarding the plane was the same standard aside from the fact that you need to keep your mask on for the entire flight.  The flight was not crowded at all, in fact my row ended up being full, but there were several empty rows that I was able to relocate and get more open seating space.  Again, I wiped down everything before getting settled.

      • There was no snack and beverage service.  When I boarded the plane, I was handed a small paper bag with a bottled water, sanitizer, and pretzels. So if you feel you may get hungry, make an order to go at one of the open restaurants before getting on the plane.

    • The Philadelphia airport is one I am all too familiar with.  It’s home. Unboarding and baggage claim remains the same; no special standards or precautions, but I did have a cleaning wipe ready in my hands to grab my bag handle.

    • Getting a rental car was the best and easiest option for me to get around. I went with ALAMO. And again, in the shuttle to the rental office, there was no assistance with the bags.

      • *I did not tell anyone I was coming into town to avoid any expectations of me stopping by.  Those I did visit, it was a last-minute surprise. – Yes of course I wiped down the rental car as much as I could.

  • Hotel: Hilton Garden

    • A little slow checking people in, staff was not as personable as I would have liked them to be

    • Rooms were clean — but cleaner after my wipe down

  • Activities - I was between Pennsylvania and Delaware and just like Louisiana, all the businesses were taking precautions. Many of them only offering take out and delivery. Bars and Pubs were open, required distancing and masks upon entry.

    • I did decide to find some ramen soup just the get some herbs and spices into my system.

    • I also had a few Emergen - C Packs with me and made sure I took one each day.


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3. Visiting my early years.

My main purpose of visiting home was to take care of some things, visit some people and see a few of my old stomping grounds. I have a lot of memories between Middletown, DE and Philadelphia, PA.

I believe it was a true blessing moving away from my childhood home and my young adulthood home. I think physically disconnecting from places (and sometimes people) I was too comfortable with gave me more of a sense of personal and professional growth. I was open to the change and embraced it and in turn, I developed life tools to see beyond a small radius. It’s a risk I would take all over again.

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I love coming back home when I can. One of my first places to go is WaWa. Now if you don’t know what WaWa is — which many people don’t — think of a mini convenient store that is also a deli with good fresh food, also a cafe with amazing coffee, also a gas station and also open 24/7. I know, I know, you’re probably thinking, “But, Raya we have gas stations like that around us that are just as good.” …..Ummmmm, NO. YOU. DON’T. What makes Wawa great is the freshly prepared food when you order it, even at 2:32am. It’s not just snack foods, it’s full meals at any time of day. This place even has it’s own brand of coffee and juices!

  • Plus no sales tax!!! One of the places I did eat at called, Paddy Whacks on South St., had a “sanitizing fee” which was about $5.

Yet, coming home wasn’t all about visiting familiar places, but also seeing what’s new in what I knew. Remember my review of Tuscaloosa, AL? And how I mentioned it reminded me of my childhood town and how now it’s developed tremendously in the span of 20 years? Well, I love driving through the old streets and trying to reminisce what was once there before it became a health clinic or a new high school or a Walmart. Would I ever move back? No, I have no plans and I am enjoying my life in the south.

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(Okay, this next part is for mature audiences only) — Ladies, there is nothing like a northeast man; whether he is from Philly, Jersey, or one of the borrows in New York, their demeanor is unmatched. Just think of DMX in his “How it’s going down” video (DMX is not my drink of choice, but in the same flight of drinks). Northeast men are aggressive, cocky and tell you what it’s going to be — won’t let you out of his life without a fight and may say something like:

“Look now, you’re my woman and I love you, so stop acting up and bring your ass over here to me.” or “I’m going to have dinner at _______. I’m going to text you the address, you should be there by 7p.” — I don’t know how to explain it, but sometimes women want to be told, not asked. (Many years ago, around 2012/13ish, when I entertained the idea of dating, a man I was getting to know once sent me a text that read: “I’m cooking tonight, be at my house by 8.” I didn’t respond because my initial reaction was…Who tf does he think he’s talking to like that?!…but guess where my ass was by 8pm! It was a great home cooked meal too. This man is now married to a nice woman who was ready to love him back.) Okay, some of you may be thinking this behavior is borderline verbal abuse, it’s not. — When a man knows what he wants, desires you, and strives to do right by you, then putting a little bass in his voice when he’s telling you to stop being stubborn and let him love you isn’t harmful. I mean, I may allow a man I’m involved with to call me b*tch in the right context…but don’t get too comfortable with it because you’re not too grown to get popped.

There is a difference between being dominate and being abusive. And northeast women can be aggressive too (many of us northeasters talk hard, we mean no harm by it, it’s just our form of vernacular — we are not for the weak). Don’t get me wrong, I love the southern charm that have come my way, but if ever there is a man who has both the down south morals and chivalry mixed with the confidence and the “I run this shit” attitude….ya girl might end up married again and give that man some sons. — AND MANY OF YOU KNOW I DON’T WANT ANYMORE CHILDREN. — Eh, my soulmate is probably lost…Marco….Marco….

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  • Funny thing, I did notice that the TSA at the Philadelphia airport were a lot more friendlier than those at the New Orleans airport.

No, there is no place like home, but I currently call several places home.

  • There were some people who were upset that I didn’t make time to see them (possibly forgetting that it is still COVID season and that I know too many people to see in one short visit) so they did not have the friendliest words for me, but last I checked, I’m not married to anyone and I’m not about to explain my time and my schedule to everybody — too many people from my past know a version of me that no longer exists — that’s the side effects of growth.

I’ve learned to go forward and if I go backwards, it’s not to relive, but only to remember.


4. PHL back to MYS.

I decided to stay one more night in New Orleans before heading back to my true reality. The flight back again was not crowded and I had some space to place my things on the seat next to me.

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This time I used my IHG points and stayed at the Crown Plaza on Canal & Bourbon.

  • There were no complaints throughout my stay at this hotel except when it was time for the valet to retrieve my car. It took over 35 minutes for the staff to pull my car up and when I got in, the driver side seat was lounged back as if someone had been sitting in it for a while and got comfortable. I. WAS. NOT. PLEASED.

Also, by the time I got back to New Orleans, there were more COVID restrictions in place and even less businesses were open, so it was hit and miss with what I was able to do and see.

I still feel like Bonnie minus the Clyde whenever I pull my mask up, but it’s become our normal routine now.

Other than that, I enjoyed my trip. We can travel during the pandemic, we just have to play it safe and be particular about what we do and who we are around.


 
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    • Oct 3, 2022 “I’m Not Like Other Guys” Oct 3, 2022
  • September 2022
    • Sep 27, 2022 Men Have The Audacity Sep 27, 2022
    • Sep 21, 2022 Opposing Views Sep 21, 2022
    • Sep 15, 2022 Don't Give Everyone Access (RECAP) Sep 15, 2022
    • Sep 12, 2022 Shuler King Message Sep 12, 2022
    • Sep 6, 2022 My Phone Code Sep 6, 2022
  • August 2022
    • Aug 31, 2022 Questions? Comments? Aug 31, 2022
    • Aug 25, 2022 Stay Unbroken Aug 25, 2022
    • Aug 15, 2022 Manifesting The Man Aug 15, 2022
    • Aug 9, 2022 Off Limits Aug 9, 2022
    • Aug 2, 2022 I Wish A Man Would (NSFW) Aug 2, 2022
  • July 2022
    • Jul 26, 2022 A Few Good Men Jul 26, 2022
    • Jul 26, 2022 The Energy You Give Jul 26, 2022
    • Jul 19, 2022 Building Barriers Jul 19, 2022
    • Jul 11, 2022 Body Image Jul 11, 2022
    • Jul 6, 2022 Hard Truths Jul 6, 2022
  • June 2022
    • Jun 29, 2022 Alfa Men Jun 29, 2022
    • Jun 23, 2022 Misleading Jun 23, 2022
    • Jun 18, 2022 Single Does Not Equal Lonely Jun 18, 2022
    • Jun 11, 2022 New Feelings Jun 11, 2022
  • May 2022
    • May 28, 2022 The Makings of a Perfect Lover May 28, 2022
    • May 24, 2022 UnBirthday 2022 May 24, 2022
    • May 15, 2022 One night stand May 15, 2022
    • May 9, 2022 Space Kitty May 9, 2022
    • May 8, 2022 Two Sides to a Coin May 8, 2022
    • May 1, 2022 Marriage May 1, 2022
  • April 2022
    • Apr 22, 2022 Hey Raya Apr 22, 2022
    • Apr 18, 2022 Mr. Perfect Apr 18, 2022
    • Apr 14, 2022 Gentle Reader Apr 14, 2022
    • Apr 8, 2022 Appearing Acts Apr 8, 2022
    • Apr 3, 2022 Sure, Tell Me More Apr 3, 2022
  • March 2022
    • Mar 20, 2022 Be Good Mar 20, 2022
    • Mar 13, 2022 Is He In A Relationship? Mar 13, 2022
    • Mar 4, 2022 Don't Give Everyone Access: PT 2 Mar 4, 2022
  • February 2022
    • Feb 23, 2022 The Men We Choose Feb 23, 2022
    • Feb 16, 2022 Self-Care, Peace & The V Care Feb 16, 2022
    • Feb 14, 2022 Mind of a Boy Feb 14, 2022
    • Feb 13, 2022 Soul Mates, Real or BS? Feb 13, 2022
    • Feb 10, 2022 Then What Good Is He? Feb 10, 2022
    • Feb 3, 2022 Another One Feb 3, 2022
    • Feb 1, 2022 Men Are Demons Feb 1, 2022
  • January 2022
    • Jan 30, 2022 Man, A Woman's Best Friend Jan 30, 2022
    • Jan 24, 2022 The Gatsby Man Jan 24, 2022
    • Jan 14, 2022 Worth The Fight Jan 14, 2022
    • Jan 14, 2022 Tech Gadgets For The Busy Woman Jan 14, 2022
    • Jan 11, 2022 Men In Style Jan 11, 2022
    • Jan 6, 2022 Make Up Sex Jan 6, 2022
    • Jan 1, 2022 Comment Control Jan 1, 2022
  • December 2021
    • Dec 28, 2021 Recovery 2021 Dec 28, 2021
    • Dec 26, 2021 Successful Kids Dec 26, 2021
    • Dec 22, 2021 Disciplined Men Dec 22, 2021
    • Dec 18, 2021 I Like When He...(NSFW) Dec 18, 2021
    • Dec 15, 2021 HER Dec 15, 2021
    • Dec 10, 2021 The Submissive (NSFW) Dec 10, 2021
    • Dec 5, 2021 Intimacy (NSFW) Dec 5, 2021
  • November 2021
    • Nov 18, 2021 Set The Tone Nov 18, 2021
  • October 2021
    • Oct 14, 2021 Calming Yourself Oct 14, 2021
  • September 2021
    • Sep 26, 2021 Accepting the People Sep 26, 2021
    • Sep 16, 2021 That's Just Love Sep 16, 2021
  • August 2021
    • Aug 31, 2021 Women and The Sum of All Fears Aug 31, 2021
    • Aug 8, 2021 Rejuvenate Aug 8, 2021
  • July 2021
    • Jul 24, 2021 A Woman’s Insecurity Jul 24, 2021
    • Jul 11, 2021 The Perfect Man Jul 11, 2021
  • May 2021
    • May 20, 2021 The Older Man May 20, 2021
    • May 1, 2021 Gaslighting May 1, 2021
  • April 2021
    • Apr 12, 2021 Loyalty Apr 12, 2021
  • March 2021
    • Mar 30, 2021 Equal or Special Mar 30, 2021
    • Mar 29, 2021 You're Just Stubborn Mar 29, 2021
  • January 2021
    • Jan 23, 2021 The Wall Jan 23, 2021
    • Jan 17, 2021 You Can't Let Life Happen To You Jan 17, 2021
  • November 2020
    • Nov 24, 2020 Selfish Acts Nov 24, 2020
    • Nov 15, 2020 What Could a 4-6 Week Lockdown Mean? Nov 15, 2020
    • Nov 11, 2020 Receipts Nov 11, 2020
    • Nov 6, 2020 Not Being Like Your Parents When Parenting Nov 6, 2020
  • October 2020
    • Oct 26, 2020 Depression Oct 26, 2020
    • Oct 15, 2020 How To Trust Oct 15, 2020
    • Oct 1, 2020 You Should Open Up More Oct 1, 2020
  • September 2020
    • Sep 25, 2020 Are Mothers Ruining Their Sons For Future Relationships? Sep 25, 2020
    • Sep 16, 2020 When Is It Actually Considered Dating? Sep 16, 2020
    • Sep 14, 2020 Do You Move Into Your Partner’s Place After Other Ex’s? Sep 14, 2020
    • Sep 13, 2020 Message From Raya L. Sep 13, 2020
    • Sep 13, 2020 Supporting Small Sep 13, 2020
    • Sep 11, 2020 What to do between Birmingham & Tuscaloosa Sep 11, 2020
    • Sep 3, 2020 Confidence Looks Good On You Sep 3, 2020
  • August 2020
    • Aug 26, 2020 The Prenup Aug 26, 2020
    • Aug 19, 2020 Degrees & Certifications Aug 19, 2020
    • Aug 16, 2020 Being Dominant vs. Being Abusive Aug 16, 2020
    • Aug 11, 2020 I Ghosted My Skeleton...Twice Aug 11, 2020
    • Aug 7, 2020 Extra Income Aug 7, 2020
  • July 2020
    • Jul 28, 2020 Don't Give Everyone Access Jul 28, 2020
    • Jul 24, 2020 Stock Market For Beginners (E-BOOK) Jul 24, 2020
    • Jul 21, 2020 The Real Preference Jul 21, 2020
    • Jul 13, 2020 Travel: Pandemic Edition Jul 13, 2020
  • June 2020
    • Jun 30, 2020 Health & Wellness Jun 30, 2020
    • Jun 10, 2020 Whether You Chose to Address It or Not, It Still Exists Jun 10, 2020
    • Jun 1, 2020 A Journey in Tuscaloosa Jun 1, 2020
  • May 2020
    • May 22, 2020 The (UN)Birthday Celebrations May 22, 2020
    • May 15, 2020 Welcome Back…Kinda May 15, 2020
  • April 2020
    • Apr 18, 2020 What Has Staying at Home Taught you? Apr 18, 2020
    • Apr 9, 2020 Mental Health During a Pandemic Apr 9, 2020
  • March 2020
    • Mar 24, 2020 Social Distancing Mar 24, 2020
    • Mar 14, 2020 Women Mar 14, 2020
    • Mar 2, 2020 This is Not a Dating Place Mar 2, 2020
  • February 2020
    • Feb 20, 2020 Getting a Divorce is NOT the Same as Being Divorced Feb 20, 2020
    • Feb 14, 2020 "Power Couples" Feb 14, 2020
    • Feb 11, 2020 She's Too Young For You, Bro. Feb 11, 2020
  • December 2019
    • Dec 22, 2019 Adieu 2019 Dec 22, 2019
    • Dec 3, 2019 Sharing Finances Dec 3, 2019
  • November 2019
    • Nov 7, 2019 Working as a Single Parent to Make it all WORK... Nov 7, 2019
    • Nov 5, 2019 Letting go of Bad Investments Nov 5, 2019
  • October 2019
    • Oct 13, 2019 Everyone Loves the Hero, but No One Forgets the Villain Oct 13, 2019
  • August 2019
    • Aug 30, 2019 Make It Work Anywhere Aug 30, 2019
    • Aug 7, 2019 Business Woman to Business Wife Aug 7, 2019
  • July 2019
    • Jul 30, 2019 Stand By Me Jul 30, 2019
    • Jul 20, 2019 What Dreams May Come Jul 20, 2019
  • June 2019
    • Jun 12, 2019 The Busy Woman Jun 12, 2019
    • Jun 4, 2019 The Boys Club Jun 4, 2019
  • May 2019
    • May 28, 2019 A BODY IN MOTION May 28, 2019
  • March 2019
    • Mar 29, 2019 WHY DO WE KEEP MISCIMMUNICATING IN THE WORKPLACE? Mar 29, 2019
    • Mar 25, 2019 "Office Housework" is keeping women in their place? Mar 25, 2019
    • Mar 19, 2019 Let Him Lead Mar 19, 2019
  • November 2018
    • Nov 9, 2018 Are You Running From Her? Nov 9, 2018
  • October 2018
    • Oct 19, 2018 Not Equal Oct 19, 2018
    • Oct 18, 2018 Dear Men...and Women Oct 18, 2018
    • Oct 6, 2018 It's Complicated Oct 6, 2018
    • Oct 5, 2018 Great Expectations Oct 5, 2018
    • Oct 1, 2018 Let's Not Waste Our Time Oct 1, 2018
  • September 2018
    • Sep 15, 2018 I Love You But... Sep 15, 2018
    • Sep 10, 2018 Gold Digging Clarified Sep 10, 2018
    • Sep 1, 2018 Times Up #MeToo Sep 1, 2018
  • August 2018
    • Aug 30, 2018 Grooming Aug 30, 2018
  • January 2018
    • Jan 22, 2018 Waiting for Who? Jan 22, 2018
    • Jan 17, 2018 The Newer You Jan 17, 2018
    • Jan 10, 2018 Can you Survive It? Jan 10, 2018
    • Jan 1, 2018 Men Set The Tone Jan 1, 2018
  • December 2017
    • Dec 23, 2017 Better Decisions Dec 23, 2017
    • Dec 8, 2017 90% of Women, Is this True? Dec 8, 2017
    • Dec 2, 2017 Forgiveness & Apologies Dec 2, 2017
  • October 2017
    • Oct 18, 2017 A Two Household Marriage Oct 18, 2017
  • September 2017
    • Sep 12, 2017 You Don't Go Together Sep 12, 2017
  • July 2017
    • Jul 5, 2017 Do Men Settle? Jul 5, 2017
  • June 2017
    • Jun 21, 2017 She Did WHAT?! Jun 21, 2017
  • May 2017
    • May 24, 2017 Have a Strong Presence May 24, 2017
    • May 17, 2017 Preparing for You May 17, 2017
    • May 6, 2017 High Expectations May 6, 2017
  • February 2017
    • Feb 20, 2017 SOUTHERN HOSPITALITY #BAMA Feb 20, 2017
    • Feb 10, 2017 Expectations of a Woman Feb 10, 2017
  • January 2017
    • Jan 30, 2017 Expectations of a Man Jan 30, 2017
  • November 2016
    • Nov 20, 2016 The Men We Entertain Nov 20, 2016
    • Nov 5, 2016 Is a Married Man Worth The Effort? Nov 5, 2016
  • October 2016
    • Oct 8, 2016 Decisions Oct 8, 2016
  • September 2016
    • Sep 14, 2016 Must Read For Women Sep 14, 2016
  • August 2016
    • Aug 8, 2016 Clinging Aug 8, 2016
  • June 2016
    • Jun 25, 2016 The Proposal Jun 25, 2016
  • April 2016
    • Apr 10, 2016 What They Want Apr 10, 2016
  • March 2016
    • Mar 15, 2016 Devaluing Your Partner Mar 15, 2016
    • Mar 11, 2016 See Me Less Mar 11, 2016
  • February 2016
    • Feb 29, 2016 Busy Feb 29, 2016
  • December 2015
    • Dec 23, 2015 The Mystery Dec 23, 2015
  • November 2015
    • Nov 9, 2015 In Training Nov 9, 2015
  • July 2015
    • Jul 24, 2015 Partnership Jul 24, 2015
    • Jul 15, 2015 Go On Jul 15, 2015
  • June 2015
    • Jun 28, 2015 Different Languages Jun 28, 2015
    • Jun 23, 2015 The Placement of a Kiss Jun 23, 2015
    • Jun 14, 2015 Letting Go Jun 14, 2015
  • April 2015
    • Apr 30, 2015 The Stranger: A Gentleman's Style Apr 30, 2015
    • Apr 11, 2015 Chemistry Apr 11, 2015
    • Apr 2, 2015 Chivalry Apr 2, 2015
  • March 2015
    • Mar 26, 2015 A Queen Doesn't Play The Joker Mar 26, 2015
    • Mar 24, 2015 Good Men Mar 24, 2015
    • Mar 9, 2015 Testing Him Mar 9, 2015
  • July 2013
    • Jul 10, 2013 Introvert Jul 10, 2013

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